You cannot give what you are lacking, dear one. Fill your life with joy so that you are able to spread joy in the world. Fill your life with self-compassion and self-nurturing so that you are able to help nurture and show compassion to others. Have faith so you can offer it. When you forgive yourself, you can more easily forgive. You can only provide for others what you’ve learned to provide for yourself. Practice giving yourself the love, nurturance, and grace first then extend it outwards.